Resources
We love connecting our clients with community resources! If you’re looking for something that you haven’t been able to find, please reach out to us and we’ll do our best to help.
Note: Unfortunately most of the written resources on this list - like most resources around pregnancy, birth, and parenting - contain cishet normative language. We will note written resources we know to use inclusive language with three asterisks***.
Jump to a topic:
Abortion
Access:
***Plan C Pills has a guide to help you get pills online based on your location
For help finding a brick-and-mortar clinic: ***I Need an A, ***Abortion Finder, National Abortion Federation
NOTE: “Womens Choice Network” is not an abortion care provider. They are a religious anti-choice organization that aims to prevent people from accessing abortion care. Read more about the (un)ethics of “pregnancy resource centers.”
Practical Support:
***If you need help paying for an abortion, the National Network of Abortion Funds offers resources
***Apiary for Practical Support has a directory of organizations that offer help with transportation, lodging, and other practical needs
For medical questions during an at-home abortion or miscarriage, speak to a clinician via the Miscarriage & Abortion Hotline (call or text): 833.246.2632
Emotional Support:
***Michele “Misha” James-Parham is a Pittsburgh-based midwife, chaplain, herbalist, coach, and more. They offer emotional counseling to help folks process their unique abortion experience.
***The Doula Project offers a free resource: Self-Care for Before, During, and After Your Abortion
***For emotional and medical support during an at-home abortion with pills, contact the Reprocare Healthline (call or text): 833.226.7821
***Exhale Pro-Voice and Connect & Breathe offer nonjudgmental after-abortion emotional support
***All-Options offers nonjudgmental counseling if you need support processing your feelings and/or making a decision about a pregnancy
Legal Questions:
***If/When/How offers a legal helpline
***The Digital Defense Fund offers cyber security resources
Allergy Support
Free to Feed is an organization founded by a molecular biologist who helps caregivers navigate potential food reactivities in their little ones.
AllergyEats offers a website and app for restaurants, and a Facebook group called Dining Out with Food Allergies
Parents of Children with Multiple Food Allergies is a great Facebook group for parents of kids suffering from multiple food allergies
FARE (Food Allergy Research and Education) has a website and local support groups. One allergy parent also told us she prefers their anaphylaxis plan to what is provided in many school districts (she recommends having your pediatrician fill that one out and ignore the district form, when the time comes).
Food Protein-Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome (FPIES): Facebook support group and FPIES Foundation’s Local a Healthcare Professional tool
You can also search Facebook for groups focused on specific allergies to connect with others
Anti-Racism in Perinatal Health Care
See our Anti-Racism Commitment page to learn more about what we’re doing in our practice to advance reproductive justice.
Art Therapy for Expecting & New Parents
Virginia Bobro offers virtual art sessions related to birth, parenting, and other life transitions.
Baby Sign Language
StartASL has a guide to getting started with baby signing
The Baby Signing Bible by Laura Berg is a helpful book if you want to use American Sign Language (ASL) with your little one
Online baby sign language classes:
Babywearing
Laura McCarthy is a babywearing educator in Pittsburgh offering classes and hands-on appointments to learn how to wear your little one
Local Pittsburgh babywearing support group on Facebook
Plus Size Birth created a guide to the best plus size baby carriers and wraps
School of Babywearing created a handy checklist for the T.I.C.K.S. Rule for Safe Babywearing. This is a great way to remember the things to check for anytime you wear your little one!
Carry Me Away offers a simple comparison of different types of carriers. We especially like their Baby Carriers 101 post.
Birth Plans
***Motherboard Birth is a user-friendly resource for creating a birth plan. (All our birth doula clients get a free account to build their birth plan!)
***The book Transformed by Birth by Britta Bushnell, Ph.D. has a wonderful chapter about creating a birth plan that we highly recommend (along with the whole book!)
Birth Trauma & Recovering from a Difficult Birth
All birth trauma is valid: how to have it recognized and get the support you need
***Virginia Bobro is a facilitator who works with parents who have had difficult birth experiences (both individually and in small groups). Many of our clients have benefitted from her support (and we have ourselves as well!)
***Birth Healing Circle is a weekly online support group hosted by mental health professionals at Forward Wellness
After a Bad Birth is a weekly online support group hosted by birth trauma therapists at Dancy Perinatal Counseling
Birth Trauma Association parent support group on Facebook
PATTCH: Prevention and Treatment of Traumatic Childbirth
Unfold Your Wings is an organization promoting hope, support, and awareness for birth trauma and perinatal PTSD
Help for making a formal complaint after a difficult hospital birth
Black Birthing Families
Pittsburgh resources:
The Birthing Hut is a group of Black doulas and educators offering 1:1 support for families, as well as Blacktivist Birthkeeper Training for aspiring Black doulas.
Brown Mamas is a Pittsburgh-based grassroots organization created by and for Black moms. They have a working moms support group and offer mentorship opportunities.
Elephant Song Doulas is a collective of Black birth workers in Pittsburgh offering birth and postpartum doula support, culturally relevant childbirth education, and lactation support. Check out their founder Kie on TikTok.
Jeaonna Hodges is a Black traditional midwife serving clients of every background in the greater Pittsburgh area. They are also an experienced doula and lactation counselor, and their team is staffed by Black birth workers and wellness professionals.
Kangaroo Birthing & Maternity Concierge offers individual and group support for growing families, as well as postpartum meal services.
Masters of Maternity is a Black-owned tech startup connecting expecting parents in Pennsylvania with local resources.
Melanin Mommies PGH centers historically marginalized Black pregnant or parenting mothers, helping to address and overcome intergenerational trauma. They have programs to support mental health and teach Black infants and kids how to swim.
Pittsburgh Black Breastfeeding Circle offers weekly support for Black nursing parents, hosted by Ngozi D. Tibbs, IBCLC
***Selena Eisenberg is a Pittsburgh-based Black traditional midwife and educator. Learn more about them on our blog!
***SisTers PGH: a Black and trans led non-profit organization that serves QTBIPOC (Queer Trans Black Indigenous People of Color) trans, and nonbinary people in Southwestern PA
Yoga Motif is a Black-owned yoga studio in Pittsburgh offering virtual prenatal yoga classes.
Online support groups & other resources:
black.moms.united on Facebook
Black & Brown Inclusive Perinatal Mental Health on Facebook (this is a young group with few members, but could be a really special space for BIPOC folks experiencing mental health challenges during pregnancy or postpartum)
Black Moms Connection on Facebook
Black Moms in College & Beyond on Facebook
Black Stay at Home Moms Village on Facebook
Breastmilk Donation for Black Mothers on Facebook (you can ask for or offer milk donation in this group)
***Queer Parents of Color Facebook group
Redefined Moms on Facebook (the host of this group is a Black Pittsburgh-based parenting coach)
Return to Zero: H.O.P.E. resources for BIPOC grieving families who have experienced pregnancy and infant loss
Single Black Mothers on Facebook
Sisterhood for Young Black Moms on Facebook
Rights in childbirth:
Books for Parents
Preparing for birth and new parenthood:
***Transformed by Birth by Britta Bushnell (if you only read one book in preparation for birth, we highly recommend this one!)
***The Birth Partner by Katie Rohs and Penny Simkin (the 5th edition uses inclusive language)
Ancient Map for Modern Birth by Pam England
Real Food for Pregnancy by Lily Nichols
Your Baby’s Microbiome by Tony Harman & Alex Wakeford
Parenting your baby:
1001 Fun Ways to Play with Your Baby and Child from Gymboree Play & Learn, written by Roni Cohen Leiderman & Wendy Masi
Be Prepared: A Practical Handbook for New Dads by Gary Greenberg & Jeannie Hayden
As your little one gets older:
The Gifts of Imperfect Parenting by Brené Brown
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
Cesarean Birth
***Prepare for a Mindful Cesarean Birth is a beautiful article written by one of our mentors, Virginia Bobro. This resource explains what to expect in the operating room during a cesarean birth, as well as ways to bring love, intention, and connection when welcoming a baby via c-section.
How to Have the Best Cesarean is an article written by Sarah Buckley, MD, an internationally-renowned expert on the hormones of birth. She discusses the differences between what parents’ and babies’ bodies physically “expect” from the birthing process, how cesarean births differ, and ways families can bridge the “hormonal gap” to promote recovery and bonding in the early postpartum time.
***Motherboard Birth offers thorough educational resources to help parents understand their options for a cesarean birth, and even create a cesarean birth plan. Whether a c-section is your plan A, B, or Z, it can be beneficial to have a cesarean birth plan on hand just in case.
This article about family centered cesarean births can be a helpful resource if you know in advance that you will be birthing by cesarean
Evidence Based Birth published an article on the evidence for skin-to-skin after a cesarean birth. It discusses how the current widespread practice of routinely separating parents from babies after birth stacks up against the evidence.
The International Cesarean Awareness Network (ICAN) is a great resource for parents who birth by cesarean. Whether planning for or recovering from a cesarean, hoping for a VBAC, or overcoming an emotionally difficult birth, you'll find education and support here. There is also a local Pittsburgh ICAN chapter that holds monthly support meetings.
Special Scars, Special Hope is an organization providing resources for people who have uterine scars other than the typical “low transverse” scar common with cesarean births. They share articles and birth stories, and they have a Facebook support group.
See VBAC section below for resources concerning vaginal birth after cesarean.
Child Safety
Car seats:
In Pennsylvania, 9 out of 10 car seats are installed incorrectly!
Here’s what you can do to make sure your car seats are safe:
We highly recommend working with someone one-on-one to learn how to properly install your baby’s car seat!
PaTECHS maintains a list of car seat fitting stations in/around Pittsburgh staffed by certified Child Passenger Safety Technicians (CPSTs)
Amanda Cagle is CPST who offers virtual car seat education and installation sessions. She can help you become comfortable installing and removing your car seat and securing your little one as safely as possible every single time.
Find a certified CPST near you by using this directory. We recommend using your state and county to search. There are dozens of CPSTs here in Allegheny County!
Learn about Pennsylvania’s car seat laws
Car seat recommendations from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)
Car seat FAQs for parents and caregivers
Car Seats for the Littles is a blog by a CPST that answers common questions about car seats
Search for recalls on your car seat
First aid, CPR, and choking relief:
Local first aid and CPR classes:
Infant CPR offers online infant CPR and choking relief classes
The Red Cross has a publication with instructions for pediatric CPR
Medication safety in pregnancy and lactation:
Infant Risk is a research center providing evidence-based information regarding the safety and effects of medications, alcohol, exercise, herbs, environmental factors, and more on pregnancy and lactation. They offer a hotline you can call to ask specific questions (highly recommend this!), as well as an app you can use to check the safety of certain medications.
Product recalls:
Search a comprehensive list of US product recalls including car seats, beds, toys, and more
Read about why inclined infant sleepers have been recalled in recent years
Sleep safety:
The University of Notre Dame’s Mother-Baby Behavioral Sleep Laboratory has a page devoted to safe cosleeping guidelines for families who are considering bedsharing. The leading researching from this program, Dr. James McKenna, also published a book called Safe Infant Sleep: Expert Answers to Your Cosleeping Questions.
Here is the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) guide to safe sleep
Mattress Test: How to tell if your mattress is safe (firm enough) for your baby to sleep on
Risks of infant sleep positioners including the Boppy pillow, Dock-a-Tot, Snuggle Nest, wedges, etc.
Sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) information from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)
Safer Sleep for Babies pamphlet from UNICEF and The Lullaby Trust UK
Water safety:
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) published an article on water safety for infants
Infant Swimming Resource teaches babies as young as 6 months old how to float in water. Find an instructor near you.
Plant safety:
“Poisons Help: Emergency Identification for Mushrooms & Plants” is a wonderful resource for anyone with children or pets. Poison Control, Animal Poison Control, and many emergency doctors and veterinarians refer directly to this group.
If someone ingests a plant or fungus and you are concerned it may be poisonous, you can post in this group and they will identify the specimen to help you know whether you need to seek emergency care.
This isn’t a typical Facebook group - it is run by a team of expert botanists and mycologists and has strict rules about posting and commenting. The reason for this is that the experts who volunteer are located all around the world, and the group admins call and wake them up if their expertise is needed to help in an emergency.
If you have preventative questions (i.e. "This is growing in my yard. Is it poisonous?"), the group gives links to other plant and fungus ID resources that will help you with that.
Circumcision & Intact Care
Evidence Based Birth has published an article about the evidence and ethics on routine infant circumcision highlighting the main points of the current evidence available regarding this procedure
The Circumsicion Resource Center is an organization providing information about the physical procedure of circumcision itself, as well as some of the lesser-known and lesser-acknowledged results of the procedure
Psychology Today has a set of articles called Myths about Circumcision You Likely Believe, Part 1 and Part 2 that can be helpful for people trying to sort through this decision
For those looking for intact (uncircumcised) care, Your Whole Baby offers helpful resources including sample letters to daycare centers and a poster you can print for your changing area in case friends, family or other caregivers will be changing your baby’s diapers.
Cloth Diapering
Green Cheeks is an organic cloth diaper service that delivers/picks up in the greater Pittsburgh area
All about Cloth Diapers is just what it sounds like and full of great information! Check out their Facebook page too.
Congenital Heart Disease (CHD) Support
The American Academy of Pediatrics published an article outlining the most common challenges parents of CHD children experience.
Mended Little Hearts offers education and support (including a Pittsburgh support group)
It’s My Heart is a book about CHD written for families.
Supportive Facebook groups:
Disabled Parenting
Pittsburgh resource:
***Disabled Pittsburgh Mutual Aid is a supportive Facebook group for local mutual aid in the greater Pittsburgh area
Online resources:
Disabled Parenting Project is an online community by and for parents with disabilities
Parenting with a Disability: Know Your Rights Toolkit from the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation
***Trans Disabled Parents is a Facebook group offering support for parents who are both trans and disabled
Personal story: This is what no one tells you about giving birth when you’re a paraplegic
Essential Oils Safety
Using Essential Oils Safely is our favorite resource on the safety of different essential oils. It’s run by a certified aromatherapist who is not affiliated with any particular brand of essential oils. Here is their guide to essential oils safety during pregnancy and breastfeeding.
If you want to use essential oils during labor, we highly recommend using personal inhalers rather than diffusing oils into the room.
Friends & Family
HuffPost Stress-Less Parenting has a post called Visitors After the Baby? 10 Tips for New Parents. It offers great things to think about when hosting visitors during the sensitive postpartum period. Highly suggested read for new parents!
The Etiquette of Visiting Parents with Newborns from Huff Post Parents is great for its practicality. These are important things for friends and family to keep in mind when visiting new parents and babies.
Along the same lines, this post called A doula's advice: the dos and don'ts of visiting friends after they have a baby. The author says, "I'm the kind of person who starts foaming at the mouth when a friend goes into labor. I start counting the potential hours until I get to meet that new baby and hug that new mom.” This post is especially helpful for people with that kind of enthusiasm that can be overwhelming for families adjusting to life with their new little one.
The Seleni Institute published an article called 10 Ways to Help NICU Parents with great advice for family and friends of medically complicated newborns.
Meal Train is a free online service to help organize meal deliveries to a family in need for any reason, whether they just brought a new baby home or experienced a loss. For a $10 upgrade, the organizer can add options for other household chores that would be helpful to the family aside from bringing meals. Here is a step-by-step guide to setting up a Meal Train***.
Take Them a Meal is similar to Meal Train. This site also has a feature called "Send Them A Meal," allowing participants to pay to have a meal delivered to the family for them.
Here are a few helpful articles about supporting parents whose baby is in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU):
Lactation & Infant Feeding
One-on-one lactation support:
Marlee offers in-home lactation consults for new parents in the greater Pittsburgh area, and virtual support visits. If you're having challenges with nursing, bottle feeding, or a mix of the two, learn more about the ways Marlee can help in these two blog posts:
Ngozi D. Tibbs is an experienced lactation consultant (IBCLC) serving the greater Pittsburgh area who has a balanced approach to lactation and a warm presence. She offers virtual support and home visits.
Joy McTavish is an IBCLC who offers a holistic approach, taking the family’s whole “ecosystem” into account. She is based in Seattle and offers virtual appointments nationwide.
Pittsburgh support groups:
Pittsburgh Black Breastfeeding Circle offers weekly support for Black nursing parents, hosted by Ngozi D. Tibbs, IBCLC
The Midwife Center offers a monthly virtual support group hosted by Simone Peterson, IBCLC
La Leche League offers many peer support groups in the Pittsburgh area:
Comprehensive lactation course:
***The Practical Parent’s Plan for Nursing a Newborn is our online, self-paced course to learn about nursing and lactation before your baby arrives. It’s an approachable class that focuses on the practical aspects of making nursing work in your own life, and will help you avoid common pitfalls. (Our doula clients have free access to this course included with their package!)
Other online resources:
Kelly Mom is a helpful resource for digestible, evidence-based information about lactation (including nursing, pumping, and bottle feeding). There are many pages addressing questions about whether certain issues are normal - something that can comfort nursing parents (or help you know when to seek out additional support).
African American Breastfeeding Network is an organization that prioritizes lactation education and support for Black parents
Chocolate Milk Cafe offers virtual support group meetings for Black parents who are nursing
Breastfeeding after a Cesarean is a pretty thorough resource that includes real stories in addition to well-researched information
La Leche League International is an organization dedicated to helping parents breastfeed through peer-to-peer support groups and education. We find their website a bit difficult to navigate, but if you know what you're looking for it can be a good resource. They also host a Facebook support groups for people nursing twins and multiples.
Dysphoric Milk Ejection Reflex (D-MER):
Some parents experience strong feelings of depression, anxiety, or other negative emotions when nursing or expressing milk. This is known as Dysphoric Milk Ejection Reflex (D-MER), and unfortunately there isn’t much research on the subject. D-Mer.org is the most thorough resource we’ve found, and they also host a Facebook group for peer support.
If this is happening to you, please know that you’re not alone (and you’re not a bad parent!). Marlee would also be glad to help you explore your options if D-MER is affecting your desire/ability to continue lactation.
Lactation policy and advocacy:
The National Women’s Law Center has a toolkit to help new parents understand insurance benefits for lactation including sample letters to insurance companies appealing for coverage of in-home support services from lactation professionals.
Pregnant at Work has compiled resources you can use if you need support navigating workplace accommodations while nursing. They also have a list of actions you can take to support lactation advocacy efforts.
Ways to support Black Breastfeeding Week written by Kimberly Durdin, IBCLC
Peer-to-peer milk sharing:
Pumping and milk storage:
If you’re just getting started, Kelly Mom’s guide for what to expect when pumping is helpful
This is a great Q&A page from Kelly Mom for parents who are exclusively pumping.
If you’re having trouble collecting enough milk when pumping, this hands-on pumping technique may help
Guidelines for breastmilk handling and storage are available online from these sources:
The CDC published a guide for keeping your pump parts clean
Inducing lactation and relactation:
***Alyssa Schnell, IBCLC literally wrote the book on inducing lactation and relactation. She offers individualized consultations on a sliding scale to walk you through the process and form a personalized plan for inducing lactation or relactating.
The International Breastfeeding Centre has an article on Dr. Jack Newman’s protocol for inducing lactation, including medication information.
The Canadian Breastfeeding Foundation published three protocols for inducing lactation: the Regular Protocol, the Accelerated Protocol, and the Menopause Protocol.
The Australian Breastfeeding Association's page on relactation and adoptive breastfeeding gives a good overview of the reasons and process for induced lactation for adoptive or non-gestational parents, or parents who have had to stop breastfeeding temporarily
La Leche League International has a page called breastfeeding an adopted baby created specifically for adoptive parents
The World Health Organization (WHO) has published a paper on relactation, available for download. It was written primarily for health professionals but could be useful for parents looking for detailed information.
Support groups on Facebook:
Formula:
If you have questions about supplementing your baby with formula or feeding exclusively formula, Marlee is happy to assist
The World Health Organization (WHO) has a publication regarding safe infant formula preparation at home. We highly recommend following this protocol (especially using boiling water, since powdered formula cannot be sterilized on its own).
Baby Formula Expert is a website run by Bridget Young, Ph.D. who has a doctorate in nutrition and is also a certified lactation counselor (CLC). This is a great resource for helping to figure out what kind of formula might be best for your baby, as well as answers to commonly asked questions.
Baby led weaning:
This is a wonderful baby led weaning support group on Facebook to help caregivers learn to introduce solid foods to babies safely and respectfully
LGBTQIA+ Families
Organizations and providers serving the LGBTQIA+ community in Pittsburgh:
***Open Space Counseling, Consulting & Wellness has a number of mental health professionals from the queer and trans community, and offers counseling and support groups specifically for the trans/nonbinary and LGBQIA+ communities
***Felishatee Rodriguez is a Latinx LGBTQIA+ therapist specializing in needs of the BIPOC & LGBTQIA+ communities, trauma, and more.
***PGH Equality Center: promotes education, advocacy, and social justice for all LGBTQIA+ people and allies in Western Pennsylvania
***SisTers PGH: a Black and trans led non-profit organization that serves QTBIPOC (Queer Trans Black Indigenous People of Color) trans, and nonbinary people in Southwestern PA
***Dreams of Hope: queer youth arts
***PFLAG Pittsburgh: support, education, and advocacy for parents and families of queer children
***Proud Haven: Helping LGBTQIA+ youth and adults experiencing homelessness and housing instability in the Pittsburgh region find resources and housing options
***QBurgh: Pittsburgh’s queer news source
LGBTQ+ Facebook groups for Pittsburgh folks:
Queer and trans affirming reproductive healthcare in Pittsburgh:
***The Midwife Center (well person care, perinatal care, and queer-centered IUI services)
***Amethyst Midwitchery (limited availability)
PFLAG Pittsburgh published a list of LGBTQ+ friendly healthcare providers
Queer conception & fertility resources:
***Trans Fertility Co. is a resource for information and stories about all things trans fertility
***Article about cycle tracking by Moss Froom
***Queer Body Literacy Instagram
***LGBTQ Birth
***The National LGBT Health Education Center published a resource called Pathways to Parenthood that outlines family-making options for members of the LGBTQIA+ community
***Single Parent by Choice support group from Rainbow Families
***Intersectional LGBTQIA+ IVF/IUI Facebook support group
***IVF with Donor Eggs Support Group on Facebook
***Endo Knows No Gend-o Facebook support group for folks with endometriosis and/or PCOS
Trans Masculine Advocacy Network created by Christian Lovehall (Brotha Doula) centers transmasc folks, including fertility, gestation, and parenting
Pregnancy loss support:
***LGBT Pregnancy & Infant Loss Facebook group
***Return to Zero: H.O.P.E. has a collection of resources for the LGBTQ+ community around pregnancy loss.
Supportive online groups for gestation:
Non-Binary Pregnancy & Parenting Support Facebook group
Moss Froom offers a monthly online support group for trans gestating parents
Gender Feels in Pregnancy 6-week virtual series & community hosted by Jenna “JB” Brown
LGBTQ+ Pregnancy Drop-In Group hosted by LGBTQ Birth
Virtual Peer Support Group for Trans Folks hosted by Jenna “JB” Brown (open to those trying to conceive through those who are postpartum and/or parenting)
Queer and/or gender expansive postpartum & parenting resources:
Raising My Rainbow is a blog about the “adventures of raising a fabulous, gender-creative son”
We love this list of 12 LGBT parenting blogs to follow
***Parenting Theybies Facebook group
Supportive online groups for postpartum & parenting:
***Birthing and Breast or Chestfeeding Trans People and Allies Facebook group
***Centering Queer & Trans Parents in the Postpartum Period support group from Whole Heart Maternal Mental Health (note: this website as a whole does not use inclusive language)
***LGBTQIA+ NICU Support Facebook group
***Mental Health Support for Non-Binary & Trans Parents Facebook group
***New Parent Drop-In Group (babies 18 months and under) hosted by LGBTQ Birth
***Non-Binary Pregnancy & Parenting Support Facebook group
***Postpartum Support International offers an online support group for queer parents
***Queer Birthing Parents Postpartum Mood & Anxiety Support Group
***Queer Parents of Color Facebook group
***Queer Single Parents Facebook group
***Trans Disabled Parents is a Facebook group offering support for parents who are both trans and disabled
***Trans Parents of Trans Kids Facebook group
Queer Family-Building Stories:
The Longest Shortest Time podcast has a heartwarming series of episodes about family called The Accidental Gay Parents that tells the story of a young couple who adopted their niece and nephew. Later on they welcomed a biological baby of their own into their family. Trystan shared about his experience as a pregnant man at a storytelling event hosted by The Moth. They have gone on to found Trans Fertility Co. listed above.
Gay Parent LGBTQ Magazine has hundreds of articles and stories about queer family building and raising
***Queer Conception Stories blog
Neurodiverse Parents
Language Guide for Ability & Neurodiversity in the Context of Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion
This personal story of a parent who found out she had ADHD as an adult may be helpful if you think you might have undiagnosed ADHD: My Mom-Overwhelm was actually ADHD
Articles with practical strategies for managing life with kids when you have ADHD:
14 Actually Autistic Influencers You Should Follow on Instagram
Facebook support groups:
ADHD Support Group (hosted by mental health professionals from Forward Wellness)
NICU Families
If your baby is in the NICU and you plan to nurse, you may need extra lactation support. Marlee has worked with many NICU parents and will be glad to support you.
5 Steps to Your NICU Parenting Plan: Empowered NICU Parenting helps you get on a fast track to better care and a more satisfying experience for your family
A couple helpful articles about the experience of having your newborn in the NICU:
LGBTQIA+ NICU Support is a Facebook group specifically for queer parents with medically complicated newborns.
Kangaroo Mother Care is a site dedicated to promoting kangaroo care for preemies. They also have information about the benefits of kangaroo care for full-term babies.
Nicolette is a technology company designing products to help families with medically complicated babies make informed decisions, understand the medical status of their little ones, and communicate effectively with their care providers.
Hand to Hold is a wonderful resource with information and peer-to-peer counseling from seasoned parents of preemies and special needs babies. They also host multiple NICU-related support groups on Facebook.
March of Dimes has several helpful articles for families with premature and/or NICU babies
Parenting Support
Visible Child is a practical parenting approach rooted in child development principles and healthy nervous system regulation. There is a Facebook group for information and support with this mindful parenting perspective, and founder Robin Einzig also offers consultations.
Human at Birth by Kristen Long Fegan is another online resource for respectful parenting
NurturePA offers a virtual peer-to-peer parenting support program. Parents are paired with a mentor who can offer information and act as a sounding board.
The Longest Shortest Time is a podcast (no longer producing new episodes) featuring stories from real families about the struggles and joys of parenthood
Parenting for Social Change is devoted to the idea that connected relationships between parents and children can change lives.
The Child Development Network introduces basic developmental stages that can be helpful if you’re just starting to learn more about child development
Down Syndrome Association of Pittsburgh offers resources for parents of children with Down Syndrome, from prenatal diagnoses through adulthood.
Parenting Multiples
Pittsburgh support groups:
Online resources & Facebook groups:
Twiniversity offers classes and resources for twin pregnancies and parenting experiences
Pelvic Floor Health
The Longest Shortest Time podcast produced a couple episodes about pelvic floor dysfunction that are super helpful if you're just starting to learn about this issue: Healing after Childbirth and Ask a Pelvic Floor PT Anything.
Childbirth Connection has a page called Pelvic Floor: Preventing Problems that provides a great overview of the pelvic floor, in addition to disorders of the pelvic floor and ways to prevent them.
The Interstitial Cystitis Association provides information about pelvic floor physical therapy. They describe the process of physical therapy to treat pelvic floor disorders, which can be life-changing for people suffering from pelvic floor disorders.
Pelvic floor health isn’t only important in regards to vaginal birth! This article explains how parents who give birth by cesarean can still benefit from working with a pelvic floor physical therapist.
Perinatal Mental Health
Crisis lines:
Postpartum Support International HelpLine (call or text): 800.944.4773
National Maternal Mental Health Hotline (call or text): 833.943.5746
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800.273.8255
Resolve Crisis Services for Allegheny County residents: 888.796.8226
Therapy, counseling, and relationship coaching:
Mental health specialists in the Pittsburgh area focusing on perinatal mental wellness:
Postpartum depression support groups in Pittsburgh:
Baby Steps at St. Clair Hospital
Virtual support, mentoring, & relationship coaching:
Moms Who Worry is a weekly support group from Dancy Perinatal Counseling
Britta Bushnell is an amazing resource, especially for couples
Shoshana Bennett offers clinical support for perinatal mental health
Amelia Jones specializes in supporting neurodivergent folks
Additional resources:
If you are considering medication to support your mental health in pregnancy or during lactation, we recommend contacting the Infant Risk research center hotline to verify the safety of the medication(s) you’re considering
Allegheny County has over 20 Family Centers throughout the greater Pittsburgh area, offering supportive community programs for pregnancy and parenthood
Postpartum Support International provides support (including a hotline) for those suffering from pregnancy and postpartum mood disorders. They also have a provider directory you can use to find someone in your area for more support. PSI also offers a support group for queer parents.
Massachusetts General Hospital Center for Women's Mental Health offers information about perinatal mood disorders
Mental Health Support for Non-Binary & Trans Parents Facebook group
Postpartum Progress is a perinatal mental health blog offering information and support to parents suffering from mental health challenges
The Online PPMD Support Group has forums for people suffering from perinatal mental health challenges, providing understanding, support, and encouragement.
Postpartum mood disorders aren't limited to those who gave birth, or to primary caregivers.
Postpartum Men is a website dedicated to supporting fathers and partners who are themselves suffering from postpartum depression or anxiety.
Postpartum Support International has a resource called PPD Resources for Dads that includes a support group for fathers (not a gender inclusive space). They also offer a monthly chat for dads who want to talk to a mental health professional about how they can best support their partner struggling with postpartum mood challenges.
***Pacific Post Partum Support Society offers phone and text support for partners and non-birthing parents who are struggling.
Pregnancy after Loss
Pregnancy after loss can bring its own unique challenges and joys. The Return to Zero H.O.P.E. has a helpful page with some tips for this sensitive time.
Return to Zero H.O.P.E. also offers online support groups for people who are pregnant after loss.
Pregnancy After Loss Support (PALS) offers online support groups for pregnancy after different types of loss so you can interact with others who have had similar experiences.
Pregnancy Loss
Pregnancy after loss can bring its own unique challenges and joys. The Return to Zero H.O.P.E. has a helpful page with some tips for this sensitive time.
Return to Zero: H.O.P.E. also offers online support groups for people who are pregnant after loss. Topics in the past have included:
Ending a wanted pregnancy
Support for grandparents
Support for infant loss parents
Parenting after loss
Pregnancy loss support for BIPOC
Pregnancy After Loss Support (PALS) offers online support groups for pregnancy after different types of loss so you can interact with others who have had similar experiences.
LGBT Pregnancy & Infant Loss Facebook group
Prenatal Yoga
Cortney Seltman periodically offers 7-week prenatal yoga circles for expecting parents in Pittsburgh
Other prenatal yoga options in Pittsburgh and online:
Mahogany Yoga in Bellevue
Yoga H’Om in Oakdale
Yoga Innovations in Bethel Park
Himalayan Institute of Pittsburgh in Mount Lebanon (in-person and online)
Yoga Motif - Black-owned yoga studio (live and on-demand virtual classes)
Unfold Motherhood (on-demand virtual classes)
Ma Yoga (live and on-demand virtual classes)
Rights in Childbirth
Birth Monopoly is an organization dedicated to exposing institutional abuse in the US healthcare industrial complex and helping families understand and advocate for their rights. They recently published a how-to guide: How to Report Mistreatment in Childbirth.
We wrote a blog post to help parents who want to make a complaint or formally report a bad experience with their labor or postpartum care, particularly in a hospital setting: Help for Making a Formal Complaint after a Difficult Hospital Birth Experience (note: some of the resources in this post are California-focused as we wrote the post prior to our move to Pittsburgh)
Black Women’s Blueprint published a report detailing the sexual abuse to maternal mortality pipeline that demonstrates the way Black and Indigenous survivors are more likely to be abused within the perinatal healthcare system
Jamila Perritt, MD, MPH wrote a call to action for healthcare providers called #WhiteCoatsForBlackLives: Addressing Physicians’ Complicity in Criminalizing Communities
Birth Monopoly founder Cristen Pascucci has written many articles on the topic of rights in childbirth. Birth Monopoly also offers two great courses, 3 Things Every Parent Needs to Know about Hospital Birth and Know Your Rights: Legal and Human Rights in Childbirth.
Birth Rights is an informational pamphlet created by the Birth Rights Bar Association and National Advocates for Pregnant Women. It’s an excellent starting point for parents who want to learn more about their rights in childbirth.
National Advocates for Pregnant Women have published a helpful guide about your right to refuse medical procedures
The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists published a position statement about refusal of medically recommended treatment during pregnancy
Human Rights in Childbirth is an international organization dedicated to providing clarity on the rights of pregnant and birthing people, gathering stakeholders (including consumers, doctors, midwives, and lawyers) to help those rights become better understood and respected in practice. They have a page dedicated to helping consumers understand their legal and medical rights in childbirth.
Substance Use Disorder
National Helpline is a free 24/7 service for treatment and referrals (English and Spanish available). They also offer a text messaging service in English: 435748 (HELP4U)
Opposition to the Criminalization of Individuals during Pregnancy and the Postpartum Period: position statement from the American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists (ACOG)
Preventing Infections: Guides from Shatterproof for preventing infections like hepatitis and HIV
Treatment, Prevention, & Harm Reduction resources from Partnership to End Addiction
Survivors of Abuse & Violence
Crisis lines:
Deaf Abused Women’s Network (DAWN): Hotline@deafdawn.org, VP: 202.559.5366
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800.799.7233
National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800.656.4673
Pittsburgh Action Against Rape: 866.363.7273
Trans Lifeline: 877.565.8860
Emergency shelter and services:
Child abuse prevention, intervention, and treatment:
ChildLine (to report suspected child abuse): 800.932.0313
Additional resources:
Hello Neighbor support for refugee parents in Pittsburgh
Vaginal Birth after Cesarean (VBAC)
The International Cesarean Network (ICAN) has education and FAQs regarding VBAC, as well as support groups for people who have had c-sections
Black Women Do VBAC is dedicated to providing support and connection for Black women pregnant again after previous cesarean birth(s)
Organizations providing research evidence and education about vaginal birth following cesarean birth:
VBAC Link (they also host a VBAC support group on Facebook)